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Married Man Sends Sorry Messages To Woman After Alleged Rape

A court has heard a married father sent a slew of apologetic messages to a victim after he allegedly raped her. 

The Daily Mail reports, Ryan Falconer, 24, texted the woman apologetically after he “f***** up”. 

“I wanted you to say no one more time then it would have stopped,” he wrote. 

The court heard he sent the victim, 20, a sad face emoji and said he “felt bad” but that she should focus on the good. 

When the victim replied she was going to the police, Falconer defended his actions claiming the pair “touched each other”. 

But the 20—year-old hit back. 

“Don’t even f****** dare blame me,” she replied. 

In court Prosecutor Jonathan Sharp said the exchange of messages was a “clear and comprehensive” admission of guilt. 

But Falconer has pleaded not guilty to the rape charge. 

The court heard the pair had been friends. 

Falconer would on occasion send the woman suggestive messages. Sometimes she would engage in the flirting, but other times dismiss him. 

The victim says the attack happened in May last year when she invited Falconer to her home where she lived with her parents. 

Her lawyer told jurours she “made it perfectly clear that she did not want it to happen.” 

After the alleged assault, the court heard the woman Googled: “was I just raped”. 

She told the jury she was confused because she hadn't been screaming or crying.

The woman went to the police two days later and Falconer was arrested and interviewed.

In court the below heartbreaking exchange was real aloud. To read all the text messages, click here:

Complainant: U don't understand how upset I am.

Falconer: Me too :/ I'm sorry, don't want our friendship ruined.

C: I told you I didn't/couldn't do it and you did it anyway.

F: I'm sorry;( I Feel bad

C: Do you know what I did when I went to the toilet? I actually cried.

F: I'm sorry, you don't know how much I wish it didn't happen :'(

C: I said no

F: I'm sorry! I wanted you to say no one more time then it would have stopped. I've f***** up! I've f***** up my home life, f***** up my friendship with you and now I'm walking round pissed too god nos where. Right now I really wish was dead :(

C: I said no countless times Ryan. You have no idea.

F: I'm sorry, can't say it enough, I don't deserve your friendship. I'm sorry f***** up.

C: I can't cope Ryan really can't... This is just about to push me over the edge.

F: Me neither :/ please don't. Come tomorrow focus on the good you've got. If you need me outa your life completely I understand :'(

C: Focus of the good? It's like I've just been raped Ryan.

F: Raped at 20? Yeah everythings f****** good.
Sorry :(
I'm sat outside some place in f***** tears, I've never wanted too die so much in my life. I've f***** up.
What do you want me to say?

C: I'm sat here crying my f****** eyes out.

F: Me too :/ don't know what else too say.

C: At this moment I have no sympathy, I feel like going to the police.

F: Police
I'm so sorry, I miss read the signs and should of listened. Please don't have me lose my son :'(

C: What signs? I said no I can't do this.
I'm sorry but you should have thought about that before you raped me.

F: And I can't lose my son! And we touched each other. 

C: Excuse f****** me!!!!!!!!! You was touching me and I kept saying no u pushed my head down don't even f**king dare blame me.
You've just made in 10x worse! Thank you

F: Just please don't have me lose my son, I'm begging you.

C: I can't even speak to you, I just need to be alone.

F: Ok, sorry for everything

The trial continues.

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